Definition of Verborragia
The term verbiage (synonymous with verbiage) is a term that is used to designate a type of attitude or tendency that some people present and that leads them to speak permanently, without stopping, without pausing almost to listen to the other, to their interlocutor , even many times without controlling the things that are said and without maintaining a limit that allows interacting with others.
Someone's tendency to speak without stopping and without listening to the interlocutor, usually caused by anxiety
The main characteristic that it shows is the abundance of words in the speeches, hooking one idea with another and another ..., even though there is no connection between them.
It is classified by case as an excessive way of expression when expressing opinions, ideas and even feelings . The verborragic person tends without realizing to monopolize the conversation, be it a dialogue or a meeting in which several people participate.
Profile of the verborrhagic person
If a study of the verborrhagic profile is carried out, the main characteristic that will stand out is its anxiety, that is, it is an extremely anxious person.
On many occasions behind the verborrágico there is an extremely shy, lonely and pessimistic person who decides to hide that reality and instead shows himself totally opposite: safe, effusive and very optimistic.
There is nothing that the verbiage has to say, the public and private account without problems, even if it can harm. And one of the most serious issues is that the interlocutor never takes into account fact that can bring problems, because of course, the latter will feel unheard and will be upset not wanting to continue maintaining a link with the verbiage.
The verbiage is usually a problem of personalities with an anxious and stressed character since in that sense, the incontinence to speak (that is, the lack of limits to speak) seeks in a way to alleviate that anxiety generated by a certain situation or phenomenon. The verbiage can be a problem if it is considered as limiting when it comes to establishing solid social relationships, although in many cases it may not affect in the least and even the opposite, facilitate the social inclusion of the person in various groups social.
Although the verbiage is understood as an unusual and unusual condition of the use of >
Along with many other symptoms, the verbiage could be understood as a particular defense mechanism in certain situations, being one of the most common when something generates fear or anxiety, and then, many respond to this feeling by talking and talking non-stop.
An inclination that creates discomfort in the environment and isolates those who suffer from it
In this sense, many people become verbiage when they have to speak in public, when their behavior is being evaluated, when they are endangered or under threat , etc., just as other people react by stopping completely.
The biggest problem with the verbiage is that normally the person does not stop to think about what he says, but rather he does more than anything to leave a place of discomfort. This is why the verbiage can easily stun, offend or annoy those who witness it as it is an unusual attitude or form of communication .
And another big problem is that it does not facilitate communication because in this case > It will be impossible to hold a talk because the verborrágico / a does not listen, does not respect, nor gives the space that corresponds to the other.
Talking a lot is not at all a symbol of good communication as many sometimes mistakenly believe, you can talk a lot as we have been saying and say nothing, be an empty communication because only one person talks about what you care and want and do not let place to others.